Do You Struggle With Motivation? Focus On This Instead

Do You Struggle With Motivation? Focus On This Instead

We all wish we had more of it, don’t we?

Motivation tends to be the one thing that we try to rely on to get results. Many of us wait to feel that burst of inspiration before we can get the momentum necessary to achieve the goals that we set.

What if I told you that you were focusing on the wrong thing???

It turns out that commitment (you can also think about it as having discipline) is more important than motivation.

Motivation comes and goes, but if you make a commitment for the right reasons, it can last a lifetime.One of the biggest lesson’s I’ve learned is that consistency is the most important factor when it comes to getting results.

No one wakes up 7 days a week with an equal amount of motivation, so to get results with anything, especially fitness, you have to make it a priority, make time for it, and make it into a habit.

Another important point is to be honest with yourself. Lying to yourself is especially bad because it prevents you from making the changes necessary to take you to the next step of your fitness journey.

If we’re really being honest, “I don’t have time for the gym” really means “The gym isn’t a priority for me.”

Everyone has the same 24 hours in a day, it’s just a matter of what you do with your free time.

The takeaway: Making the commitment in the beginning is the key step. After that, you can put your habits into place. It will then be much easier to persevere through the inevitable challenges that life will throw your way.

That’s the only way you’ll succeed.

I’ll be talking more about habits in a future post. Stay tuned!
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Two Very Important Nutrients That Many People Are Lacking In Their Diet

What makes the difference between packing on pounds of fat and staying lean and fit? Your diet. And when it comes to your diet, there are two nutrients that you especially need.

What makes the difference between packing on pounds of fat and staying lean and fit? Your diet. And when it comes to your diet, there are two nutrients that you especially need.

1. Make sure you get enough protein in your diet.

The first thing you need to do is focus on eating the right types of food. One very important nutrient is protein.

Making sure you eat a high-protein diet is a major way to increase your metabolism (1).

In addition, eating protein also keeps you full for longer and can make you eat less during the day (2,3). Eating more protein may lower your blood pressure (4), and has been shown to fight diabetes (5).

In one study, women who ate a diet that was 30% protein ate 441 calories less per day. They lost 11 lbs in 3 months, just by eating more protein.

This is most likely because eating protein fills you up more and you don’t have cravings during the day. I personally think you could lose even more weight if you do 35% protein. That’s what I personally do.
However, one concern people have with eating a lot of protein is kidney damage. 

This is a false concern

Healthy kidneys have never been proven to be damaged with a high-protein diet (even up to 2-3x the Recommended Daily Allowance) (6).

Easy ways to add more protein:

Try to drink a whey protein shake. The best times to drink one are right after your workout, right when you wake up, and right before you go to sleep.

2. Don’t forget about the fiber!


Another major key is to make sure to get enough fiber in your diet.
Fiber has many benefits. An Australian study that followed over 1500 adults for 10 years found that the subjects that had the highest fiber intake had a 79% greater odds of aging disease-free (7). Fiber slows down the absorption of sugar in your bloodstream, which reduces your risk of diabetes.
Fiber can also prevent constipation (8) and help you eat less and feel full faster (9).

Easy ways to add more fiber:

Try to eat oatmeal in the morning. If you’re really ambitious, do that and maybe some broccoli or spinach (steamed broccoli is my favorite) with lunch and/or dinner

3 Harmful Myths Preventing You From Reaching Your Fitness Goals

There are a few myths that become very pervasive in the fitness world. You may even believe some of them yourself. Check out the article below to see if you are making any of these fatal mistakes.

There are a few myths that become very pervasive in the fitness world. You may even believe some of them yourself. Check out the article below to see if you are making any of these fatal mistakes.

1.    Myth: You can eat whatever you want as long as you exercise enough to make up for it.

Truth: You cannot out-exercise a bad diet.

Diet has a much larger effect on your weight than exercise does. According to one study, only 10 to 30% of the calories your body burns in a day are actually related to body movement (i.e. exercise) (1).

Most of the calories your body burns (60-80%) comes from your resting metabolic rate (RMR), which is the calories your body burns just to maintain itself.

In other words, your body burns most of its calories while you’re doing nothing.

About another 10% of the total number of calories you burn is directly related to the type of food you eat.

When you are trying to burn calories and lose weight, why only focus on that 10-30%? When you do the math, it becomes clear that focusing on exercise without changing the types of food you eat will not result in significant weight loss.

A great example of this is NBC’s TV show The Biggest Loser. Just like many people trying to lose weight, the contestants exercise for hours every day and restrict their calories in order to lose weight.

But one study that looked at 14 contestants from the show found that 13 of them regained the lost weight within six years, and 4 of them were even heavier than when they began the competition (2).

They were unable to achieve a Fitness Transformation because believed the myth that you can out-exercise a bad diet.

What you should do:

Make sure to address any deficiencies in your diet, whether it’s too many sweets, too many processed foods, or eating out too much and not cooking meals at home.

A really good diet that I recommend is one called the Mediterranean diet. Studies have shown that it may reduce the risk of stroke, heart attack, and type 2 diabetes (34). It has also been shown to be better for weight loss and improving diabetes, when compared to a low-fat diet (5). For tips on how to follow the Mediterranean diet, click here.

2.     Myth: To lose weight, you only have to “eat less and exercise more.”

Truth: Cutting calories is not a good long term solution for fat loss and staying lean. You have to change the quality of the food you eat, not just the quantity.

What’s the problem with severely cutting calories in order to lose weight?

The problem is that you lose fat, but you also lose muscle. This slows down your metabolism.

The quality of the food you eat is much more important than how much food you eat.

Think of it this way: if you eat junk, eating less junk will always be better than eating more junk.

Unfortunately, most people eat a lot of junk, so this is why cutting calories works to lose weight in the short term.

But if you eat less junk, as opposed to more junk, it doesn’t change the fact that you’re eating junk in the first placeThis is the critical problem that you need to solve if you want to have any long term success with getting and/or staying in shape.

The traditional model of weight loss is “eat less and exercise more”. But as we have seen the results of that approach with contestants on The Biggest Loserthat approach does not work in the long term.

What’s the problem with the traditional model?

The problem is that starving oneself, combined with lengthy, intensive exercise, actually slows your metabolism down.

That’s right. So that means you burn fewer calories in a day than you used to. For example, one particular contest from the show now burns 800 fewer calories per day than would be expected from someone his size.

This is because your body adapts to the drastic decrease in caloric intake by burning calories less efficiently. In physiology, this is known as homeostasis.

This is the exact outcome you want to avoid. A slower metabolism will make it harder for you to lose weight and keep it off.

You want a faster metabolism, not a slower one.

A faster metabolism will help you burn calories more efficiently. This will make it easier for you lose fat, gain muscle, and stay lean.

The best way to lose fat and to stay lean is through good eating habits and increasing your metabolism through exercise. This can be very difficult because some of us are born with slower metabolisms, but it is not impossible.
What are the best ways to increase your metabolism, you may ask? Stay tuned for a future post on this topic!

What you should do:

Focus on the quality of your food, and not just the quantity. If you need somewhere to start, see above links on the Mediterranean diet. Try to make a habit of grocery shopping (make sure you don’t shop when you’re hungry! People tend to make bad decisions when they’re hungry). Also, try to pick one day during the week to do most of your cooking. It’s easier this way, since most of the hassle is the setup and the clean up, both of which are the same no matter how much food you cook.

3.     Myth: Women shouldn’t lift weights because it will automatically make them get “big and bulky.”

Truth: Eating too much ice cream is much more likely to make you get “big and “bulky” than lifting weights is. It takes more than just lifting weights to gain a significant amount of muscle mass.


Women simply don’t have enough testosterone to naturally get to the same size as a man; men have 7 to 8 times as much testosterone as women do (6).

And trust me, if getting big and muscular was so easy, then all the guys you see in the gym several times a week would be huge, instead of looking the same after lifting weights for years. Making significant muscle gains requires a significant increase in overall food intake and protein consumption, in addition to getting enough sleep at night.

As a woman, lifting weights is not enough to make you “big and bulky” because you don’t have enough testosterone, plain and simple.

What lifting weights will do, however, is increase your metabolism by increasing your resting metabolic rate, or RMR (78). This means that you will burn more calories while sitting and literally doing nothing.
This will help you gain muscle and lose fat.

What you should do: 

Don’t be afraid to incorporate some weight training into your exercise routine!! I recommend to start with light weights in whatever exercise you’re doing and focus on your form. You can then increase the weight once you have your form down and the previous weight no longer seems challenging. 

If you are not sure where to start, I recommend clicking on this link (for females) or this link (for males). It’s a wonderful resource, and I’ve used it many times myself. Click the muscle group you would like to target, and you will see a vast list of exercises to target that muscle group.

Why Most New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

Everyone makes them. Or almost everyone. But do they work?…..

Everyone makes them. Or almost everyone. But do they work?
Chances are, you’ve made New Year’s Resolutions in the past. And while you may have started off year strong, I’m willing to bet that your resolutions didn’t go exactly as you planned.
But before you get too disappointed, think about it. It’s really just another day.

Is anything really going to change, just because the clock strikes 12 on New Year’s Eve?

The truth is, you must make lifestyle changes to see permanent results.

Diets, “challenges”, and other temporary changes to the amount and type of food you eat are not good long term solutions. As soon as you revert back to your previous food and exercise habits, you will continue get your previous results. 
So what can you do?

The good new is that when you start a new habit, you can easily continue it for the whole year.  Even longer. However, this goes for good habits as well as bad ones.

Here’s another quote about habits:

“You don’t determine your future. You determine your habits, and your habits determine your future.” – Unknown

So try to resolve to start healthier habits in 2017.

Here are 3 easy tips for habits you can try to start in the New Year. Try them out and let me know how they work for you!!

  1. Don’t undermine your progress on weekends!!!

    • I know this one won’t be popular, but try to moderate your alcohol intake on the weekends.
    • Calories DO count on the weekends. I know it can be hard to make healthy food choices, but try to do your best. Your body will thank you for it.
  2. Pick healthier options when eating out

    • For example, instead of ordering pancakes at brunch, try an omelette and hash browns or potatoes
    • Or instead of getting fries with your burger, try another side that the restaurant may have. Depending on the place, they may have mashed potatoes or chili, both of which are healthier and will fill you up more than fries. Some places may have options that are even healthier. Don’t be afraid to explore!!!
  3. Try not to drink your carbs

    • I’m sure you’ve heard this everywhere, but drinking pop/soda is not doing your body any favors. Liquid sugar is even worse than regular sugar, because it goes into your bloodstream quicker. So try to drink more water instead!
    • If you have trouble drinking water because it doesn’t taste good, don’t worry. That was me a few years ago. What you can do is try to get a water filter to make water taste better. I use a Brita filter and my water tastes great. You can either keep the water at room temperature or in the fridge. If that still doesn’t work for you, and you really want something sweet, try some sugar-free flavor packs for water.

The Hard Truth About Making A Fitness Transformation

Why is it so hard to make a fitness transformation?

Why is it so hard to make a fitness transformation?

Most people would like to be more fit, but making significant progress on your fitness journey is much easier said than done.

To answer this question, we must first look at the traditional unsuccessful approach that most people have, and compare that approach to that of those people that make successful transformations.

The traditional approach that most people follow echoes the age-old advice: “Eat less, exercise more.” The exercise component of this usually looks like getting on the treadmill a few times per week. The nutrition part, many people choose to “go on a diet.”

Whether the diet limits you to a certain number of calories, or you can only eat certain foods, or the food comes pre-packaged, the premise is usually the same:

Most diets will falsely claim that you can have permanent results by only making a temporary change.

Traditional “diets” are easy to do, but this is because most people go in with a particular mindset. Usually, it’s something like this: “Okay, I’m gonna follow this special diet for X amount of days, I’m gonna do exactly what they tell me to do, I’m gonna lose the weight.”

And because we focus on the wrong things, we end up going back to doing what we were previously doing, which got us the results that we didn’t want.

Most of us have the assumption that this process will take zero mental effort on our parts; we think that we can follow the “diet” like a prescription, lose the weight, and keep it off. Unfortunately, this couldn’t be further from the truth.

The reason why “diets” don’t work is that we don’t focus on our habits. A “diet” is temporary, but habits can last for years or even a lifetime. If we don’t focus on our habits when we try to make a fitness transformation, we are destined to fail.

Habits are one very important area of your life that affects all other areas of your life. We must examine our habits as they relate to what foods we eat, when we eat them, and WHY we eat them (the answer isn’t always that we’re hungry, let’s be honest).

Here is a good quote that I feel highlights the importance of habits:

“The chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken.” – Unknown

In order to make a fitness transformation, we have to start new habits and get rid of old ones.

That’s the tough part. The mental part of it is actually harder than the physical part, believe it or not.

I can go into the different steps of what a transformation might look like, but unless and until YOU decide to make the commitment to changing your habits, it’s not going to help you.

It’s not an easy process, but I can promise you that it’s worth it.

There are some quetions that you can ask yourself to help decide if you are ready for this commitment.Here’s what some of those questions might look like:

  1. How much do I value my health and wellness?

  2. Am I comfortable with and confident in the way I am treating my body?

  3. What parts of my life do I need to change in order to become the healthiest version of myself?

Be honest with yourself.
The point of these questions isn’t to quickly think of an answer.The point is to get you thinking about the mental foundation of your relationship with your body.

 How strong is your foundation?

(Stay tuned, there’s more to  come)